Life Rules

As I am sure you have also experienced, my thought life has changed alot from my twenties up until today.
I "struggled" with a lot of pride and selfishness, without knowing it. When I saw it for the first time, and managed to walk away from my first word "fight", that was huge for me (funny as it is). Now I honestly enjoy sitting back in a place of arguing, without any need of interfering.

I am now in my late 30's, and often find myself questioning my own words and opinions - especially after sharing my opinions with others.
"Do I actually believe this?" "Why do I believe this to be right?" "Is there a chance it could be wrong?" etc.

Following are a few of my current life rules, for those interested in my perspective on life, thoughts, faith, myself and others:

  • Forgive those who did you wrong, and let it go (don't ever hold it against them again).
    Bitterness grows easily from "justice", and it will slowly break you down.

  • Don't let some Christians fool you or keep you from finding out if God is real. Your life may actually change for the better, just like mine.
    (I know there are some hard headed, judgemental Christians out there)

  • Don't keep up a facade. Be real.

  • Don't let money and status gain control of your life.

  • Kill pride in yourself when you find it (Pride is no good to no one).

  • Greet everyone with compassion (including people living in poverty or addiction). You're not better then them - You're just luckier.

  • Always question what you hear and read.

  • Nobody's perfect, so give grace when people mess up..

  • Don't be a slave to sugar.

  • Don't let fear be the boss. Be courageous and follow your heart.